John Affidavit Fernandes
I have accepted my part in this, it was long over due and I've still much programming to overcome, this thread is but a fraction of what we experienced together And..... was no ones business till she used the pigs and crated a public record that I may be abusive to women. She was very cunning in her use of language, there was no record of abusive language or physical violence in her journals so she started using bully, terrorized and fearful, these came from 3rd parties who advised her to vilify me in case I was not the man she knew me to be. We had an agreement, she kept changing the goal posts as her advisers thought it was best to keep me in a state of duress, maybe I would make a mistake or crack. I held steadfast to the original agreement, she made it a shit show, I was butt hurt, II vented without creating further controversy.