David Vilaca
You have "noticed" near "every one", who is left that will admit and/or honor that the person is yours to administrate, that the Bank of Canada IS Surety for that person and that none of this is your fault. Stop having a case of the feels, there is no new angle, just the question you so eloquently put forth which creates the breach of trust. All you need for extreme detachment is already there :) What is the definition of insanity?