Stuart Stone
If YOU aren't the name being charged, and YOU have directed them where to go for surety, what do YOU care whether YOU are there or not if YOU are not the named person?
If YOU want to maintain some control because what happens to the PERSON/NAME may adversely affect YOU and YOUR life, then act in the capacity of SOLE AUTHORISED ADMINISTRATOR and administer the charges to make sure that they are discharged correctly, thus maintaining the honour and integrity of the NAME.